Knowing how to shake hands is an important skill. Shaking hands originated as a way to ensure that the other person was not concealing any weapons. Although the purpose of shaking hands has evolved, the basic concept has not changed.
People make conclusions about how friendly, approachable and trustworthy you are based on your handshake. The art of shaking hands is best learned through practice, however the following steps will help you on your way to a great handshake.
Here's How:
The first step to a good handshake is a verbal introduction, either by yourself or someone else. If you don't say anything and offer a handshake, you will appear either nervous or aggressive.
During the introduction, extend your right hand toward the other person. The palm of your hand should be perpendicular to the floor with your thumb pointed upward. When your thumb joints meet, wrap your hand around the other person's hand.
The firmness of your grip should be about the same as you would grasp a door handle. Overly strong or very weak handshakes can leave a bad impression; if possible, practice with some friends to get your grip right.
The handshake should last for about 2 or 3 seconds, during which time you can pump your hand up and down a couple of times if you wish.
Tips:
Make eye contact while shaking hands. Not making eye contact will make it seem like you are trying to hide something.
Placing your left hand on top of the other person's hand (also known as the two-hand handshake) should be reserved for good friends or acquaintances
Handshakes are not appropriate in all cultures. If you will be traveling to a foreign country, research the customs regarding shaking hands.
If you are at an occasion where you know you will be shaking hands, hold your drink in your left hand to avoid your right hand becoming cold.
If you suffer with sweaty palms, keep some paper towel in your pocket that you can use to discreetly wipe your hand with.
What You Need
- Someone to shake hands with.
